Or maybe the King? Do you know what you want for your home and your life? How do you feel when you walk into a room? What do you notice? Do you find yourself shrugging your shoulders, just letting out a big sigh and walking away closing the door on your way out? What are the thoughts that follow……..”I just don’t know where to start, what to do and really, what is the use…….I can’t do it……… I am just so tired” ugh!!
Years ago I had a friend who is a Feng Shui Expert come into my home and she witnessed me doing all of those things. I had a roommate at the time and I wasn’t happy about it, no privacy, unfinished renovations in my home, too much clutter……all the things. She said I was acting like a 16 year old who didn’t know what she wanted. And she was right. So, I had to put on my cloak (more about that here) and get it together. It was time to set some boundaries and make some changes in my home and in my life.
Where in your home or life do you feel like you know what you want or need? Where are you in charge? What is this energy like for you? Tap into that energy.
Because you are the one that gets to decide!
You get to make decisions about what goes in your personal space, what goes out, who is invited in, who visits and what happens in your space.
You are in charge!
I am in charge of my kitchen .Yes, I am the cook in my home and I am good with that. I want to eat as healthy as possible so I get to plan our meals. This is my domain. I shop for our food and cook our meals. I have a really small kitchen so it is important to me to keep things as organized as possible. I need to know where things are when I need them. Thankfully, my partner cleans up after my cooking fiascos. Haha! Did I mention I love to cook? Actually, I just love to eat healthy food. Shhh!!
What areas are yours and yours alone? Where are you most in charge? Would love to hear from you………
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